I’m in love again.


I’m sure part of the problem was me. As in any relationship, it’s never really the “fault” of one side or the other. Maybe I didn’t choose “right” at the start- maybe I didn’t know myself, maybe I simply outgrew what I had, maybe I just told myself that this was the way it was supposed to be and that’s why I never went looking for a better “fit. ” Things got stale, I kept going through the motions until I began pulling back a bit, then a bit more- rationalizing, making excuses, telling myself it was just a phase..until I completely disconnected… then we moved..and then, in His timing, the good Lord led me outside of my comfort zone to a home for my heart and soul.  I’m in love again..I really am.

I’m in love with our new church.

We had been “church shopping” since we moved to Charlotte and we of course went back to what we knew..older, more traditional with  “contemporary” services built in. It felt recognizable, and I thought that was probably good enough.

Then one Sunday we walked to a brand new place I discovered near our home.  Honestly, I thought it was a nursing home it was so far off the street I never paid much attention to it.  It’s non denominational, much bigger than we’re used to, much younger, much more stage stuff, much more of everything I thought I wasn’t interested in.  I was totally ready to not like it, I was ready to pass judgement.

What’s the magic here?  It’s not just the energy coming from the younger people, although it is. It’s not just the FANTASTIC music, although it is that too…It’s the relevance of the messages. When Charlotte convulsed with racial tension a few months back, the pastor took the topic right to the pulpit…ditto with the whole gender neutral bathroom saga and other touchy issues such as the country’s division over the election-and then how we should handle the results. This man is fearless when it comes to tackling tough stuff, and you know what? I love it! I’m tired of the PC fog that surrounds so many of the issues of our time. I want a clear message from my church- I want a pastor who puts today’s problems into biblical and eternal, context. I don’t go to church to have my feelings and opinions affirmed, I go to hear what God says about life -I’m a big girl, I can handle it.

This church is ACTIVE in the community- reaching out in relevant ways that have an immediate impact. There have been three sessions since the riots bringing the citizens together with law enforcement to discuss and start solving the complex problems between them; hundreds of people showed up each time. This church has a global reach as well. This past Sunday our guest pastor was from Cairo and he discussed how the Christian church was growing in Egypt amongst a people who are so completely trapped in darkness. It was fascinating, challenging, hopeful..and relevant.

This church exudes God’s  love. We are so hard on ourselves..really. And while this pastor challenges us to live up to the example Jesus set,  he also smothers his message with reminders of God’s grace. I don’t even know how to explain it, but there is tremendous hope in our heavenly father’s willingness to forgive us.

I had no idea I could ever feel this way about going to church..

I can’t wait for Sundays!

I’m in love again.




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8 Comments Add yours

  1. Wonderful to find a church that fits your needs.. I once read a book by a woman who had a near death experience and asked questions while in the light. One was why there are so many churches and the answer was because we all have different needs . We grow and change in this life so it makes sense…

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  2. Cindy says:

    I’ve never loved going to church..I just went..and I was fine with that. I always loved bible study and I met wonderful people outside of Sunday service..but I could have taken it or left it on Sunday..and over the past few years, believe me, I was leaving it. 😟


  3. I’d usually go to church just to sing in the choir. About a year or so ago, I realized that maybe I was given a love for music NOT so I could share a talent, but so that I’d get my butt in the building once in a while. 🙂

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    1. Cindy says:

      I used to arrive late on purpose so I wouldn’t need to sing so many songs…isn’t that terrible? The band in this church touches my soul, I can’t get enough of them. They are young and so talented..I still don’t sing that much..but I love listening.

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      1. I don’t think I’d ever go if I didn’t sing…which is why I’m glad I do. 🙂

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      2. Cindy says:

        That’s awesome. If I did love to sing, I don’t know where else I’d be able to do it..with others that is- (not in the shower)

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      3. I can’t sing in the shower. The cats howl at me. LOL!

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      4. Cindy says:

        Well, I admire you for singing in the choir. I wish I could, but I’m not comfortable doing it..in fact, when I’m in church, in the audience, I basically don’t sing so that I can hear the band better..it’s like I don’t want to create any interference. I admire people so much who are musically talented..I love basking in their music..it’s like the musical equivalent of sun bathing-“music bathing”… I guess.

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