Imagining a vibrant future..

Last night, my husband and I went into the city to watch a ballroom dancing competition.  I didn’t realize how touching and motivational the experience would be. Almost all of the competing couples were women partnered with their coaches. So these are basically women who love to dance, who practice at area studios, hiring their “teachers” to be their partners for various dances throughout the event. I’m not sure if there was a monetary prize, but trophies lined the stage.


And let me assure you, these women were serious about taking that hardware home. Their make-up and hair were impeccably done and the dresses..oh my..they were stunning!  As I found out later sifting through a pop-up dance shop, those sexy little outfits cost THOUSANDS of dollars…and they WEIGH A TON with all the beading!!!

What was most uplifting to me was watching the older women perform.  There were three over the age of 90!!  And before you get your “awww” on, these seniors were not there for a photo-op, they were there to kick some butt and win! You should have seen the legs on these grannies..heck, you should have seen the definition in their arms and backs! It was unbelievable watching them prance across the floor with men a third their age..OR LESS!


Her partner could have been her grandson’s age.. maybe even great-grandson!

I’ll be honest, sometimes the idea of getting old scares the crap out of me..but I think part of the reason is that I’ve bought into a prepackaged vision of how it’s all destined to unfold. Going to this event last night made me realize that there is an alternate reality out there. But it takes a serious commitment to follow that model and a deep passion for something outside of yourself; something that involves the pursuit of a goal. Aging does come with increased physical and mental challenges, there’s no denying it; the question becomes do we allow our limitations to dictate our direction? Our engine may sputter a bit (esp first thing in the morning) but most of us still have the steering wheel in our hands!

Seriously now, look at her legs!! 😯

I told my husband that I wanted to come again next year, not as spectator, but as a participant. I know if we step it up, take it seriously, practice more, STRETCH MORE, and really make an effort we can do it..I really want to do it!

And he agreed.

Right before we left, a woman in a sparkling green dress with wavy blonde hair cascading down her back came out to dance with her partner. She commanded attention with her intensity and beauty as she extended her long arms like a bird in flight. Her coach was completely focused on every move as he confidently guided her through their routine. She was dancing in a wheelchair.




12 Comments Add yours

  1. Beautifully written! Yes, aging is scary and needs a well thought out plan and effort to be done with grace and beauty. Wising you the best on this venture.

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    1. Cindy says:

      Thanks Tracey! I tell ya, these ladies last night were incredible- both young AND old- I give them so much credit for pursuing their passion!

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      1. It truly is such an inspiration to see women aging in a strong vibrant manner….

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      2. Cindy says:

        I agree. It just informs me of what is possible…even if I never personally attain what they have, it breaks the depressing image of inevitable “old age life” that I sometimes have.

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  2. Kimberly says:

    I see a road trip next year for all of us as your cheering section!

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    1. Cindy says:

      HAHAHAHA!!!- OHHHH NOOOO- the pressure!!!!!! 😂 Kim, there’s a dance studio near you..You’d love it- I’m telling you!


  3. hmunro says:

    What a beautiful post, Cindy — and what a beautiful realization, as you contemplate your own future, that you don’t *have* to subscribe to the common notions about “old age.” I’m with Kimberly: Bring on the cheering-section road trip! 🙂

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    1. Cindy says:

      HAHAHA!!!- The pressure is REALLY building now!! 💃

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  4. My grandmother took up dancing in her late 70s after her husband died. Somewhere there is an adorable picture of her in her square-dancing outfit. I love that memory of her. I hope spunkiness runs in the family. 🙂

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    1. Cindy says:

      That is awesome! I talked to my mom about it the other day..she has vision issues and feet issues, but I told her to look for some group class for older people that might even allow you to sit in a chair and just tap your toes. The music alone makes you happy. I think I may also sign up for zumba at the “Y” just to help me get more flexible..I definitely dance like a repressed pilgrim-gotta work on my moves.

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      1. I definitely dance like nobody can see me. Or like I can’t see either. LOL

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